They all got back at about 6pm. The games and stupidness start immediately and the children are in the middle of it. I decide the best course of action is to avoid confrontation.

Try to spend some time talking to the children to hear what sort of time they have had. I think they have enjoyed themselves. stbx keeps interupting whatever I am doing with the kids - she just can't leave us alone.

I have the whole day with them tomorrow so will do what they want - rain or shine.

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Well today I had what will probably be my final emotional explosion with my S2BX.  She held the key to me moving on, but had shut down on that level, as she has already moved on and blocked me at every turn.

 I tried a non confrontational route, through e mails, but got the usual barriers, 'I've answered all your questions' 'You must move on, and I can't help you' & my fave 'What's done is done'  It has only been 3 weeks since I became aware that I was getting a divorce, lagging her by several months it would seem.  There are still questions within 3 weeks, even though the split is now

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