Hi all, Well have sent the b'atch yet another proposal and informed her that the financal terms are being reduce over the next two months, so that by Sept she will only be getting the 150% as calculated by the CSA.

Now it's me thats being unfair and not helping, how can I survivie on that much (plus all the child benefit, WTC, CTC, and her salary) should I give a sh1t about it any more, I think the answer is no but here I am 11pm been up since 5:45 and I feel like the bad guy?

I know I will look after the kids come hell or high water but why should I have to look after her, she has a

Hi,

The first blog of maybe many.  My soon to be ex has issued divorce papers citing unreasonable behaviour.  This is a bit odd given the fact that she has been having an affair with her Boss for the last 12 months.

Anyway it is not about them it is now about the kids...

What age can they decide which parent they want to live with.  My daughter is 11 and my son 13.

I work in Holland and commute home (or say I used to) weekly.  My company that I work for would pay for my kids to go to one of the best private schools in Holland and I would like to at least give them the best opportunity in life.

I

The last two/three years of my relationship with my ex were not good we did not argue much but we just went along living our lives and not really being interested in each other.

I was for ever getting moaned at for everything I did and I often thought of leaving her but thought that we were once great together and surely we could find that again plus we have a lovely son who is adored by both of us and we wanted to give him the best we could.

We lived in an area where she had lived all her life and me for 9 years - it is not a great area and I did not want my son to grow up there so we