What to say when all is well in your life....?That's the position I'm in now.

My new positive position has made me new friends. Which in turn has given me a better understanding of where I am and where I want to be.

For all those who have suffered by their partners,I can only now say what a lucky escape.

Being and staying positive is like a drug the more you are the more you'll be. Believe in yourself not as a couple, your children will grow up eventually and leave you, the house you have is too big, it is amazing what size you could live in happily and well the money you can't take it with

Hi,

my sister said when men new i was single again they would come out of woodwork.

There is a guy at work who i have flirted with, but cos i was "married" i did not do anything but now i am singke we both want to take it further ! Its just i am his boss and it cud jespodise mynjob but i need and want this guy, can we have fun and then walk away or am i too emotional to make a call?

help I have never felt so alive as the last 2 days !

need some

I've been stuck in a rut for years.  Working a long way from home, long hours, very stressful, underpaid, and, I've finally realised, neglecting my family and taking all my grief out on them. 

My wife's been stuck in a rut too.  Alone in the house, looking after the kids, depressed, realising she was nearing 40 and the kids were growing up and blaming me for everything.   

So we drifted. She hooked up with an ex, stopped talking to me, and  started a new life.  I got cross, got stressed, and had a total breakdown, exacerbated by several deaths in the family which I had to deal with.  I