So 3 months in to our break from marriage and sharing child care has been quite an experience - one of which I have found more sad than happy as when I have them it feels a little forced - 13 year olds don't like to do much and always complain!! though my 9 year old boy is fun to be with yet this also makes me sad as I can't bare to think of the confusion and upset he and my daughter may be feeling ... Me and my wife are getting on much better and we have had a few moments where we have shared time out together (a date or 2) - these are ok and it is nice to be able to share laughter and

Two days into the new situation... lets start going to counselling and start again scenario. 1. Relate cant fit us in for a while... I wanted t get cracking, whilst the iron was hot so to speak. Its a common problem obviously. 2. She asked if i had slept with the recent woman in my life. I said i had, as it was the truth and i wanted to start afresh with an open and honest approach. 3. Now she says she can not deal with the fact i had a physical relationship and would i have moved on so fast had she died! ouch! I cant make her understand that i moved on because she filed for divorce,

This is worse than eastenders!!! After 6 weeks with my new lady she was putting a lot of pressure on for me to tell my daughter about her... she seemed to see it as some sort of security issue. It was not enough that all my family and friends knew though not many had met her, yet. Anyway, i decided to tell my daiughter and told the S2BX i was going too incase there was some upset... Then a huge bolt out of the blue as the S2BX said "Please dont, can we try counselling...........can we try and sort things out!!!!! After months and months of me asking same.. now after i move on and turn the