39 with my whole life in front of me

Posted by timetoheal in new relationships, dating, being single

When I first split up with my stbx I was still (barely) in my 30s. I just assumed that I would meet someone else and would have a new relationship at some stage. I was in no hurry as it was a really bad split and I needed to focus on getting myself and my children through it. I was also a mess from the marriage itself and the abuse in all its different forms. I had the good sense to know that I was too screwed up myself and I needed to heal before I got into a new relationship.

That was all fine. I was only 39. There was no rush. I had loads of time. So I focused on the children and building a

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Dec 15

2018

Lost romance

Posted by sungirl in new relationships, moving on, dealing with emotions

i was just watching a video of a friends, friends wedding day. A young couple, obviously in love on their happy day. Every detail perfect they looked so happy. And I thought I don't think I can ever do that or feel that way again. I'm not anti wedding, I work in the wedding industry in fact. I envy my parents celebrating there 50 th wedding annivsary, how lucky to have had that one loving partner their whole lives. And I'm not anti relationships as I've had a partner for four years now. However I really, really can't picture myself declaring this, the happiest day of my life, gazing

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Sep 18

2018

Update on my new life

Posted by xargle in planning my new life, new relationships, my story, moving on, happiness, accepting its over

I thought I would write about where I am now in my life.

I have been looking back at my old entries, and I must say that there is life after divorce! For me it's 5 year's since my ex said he didnt want to be with me, 3 years since the divorce and 2 years since he died.

I'm now in a place where I can think about him without being angry , I still get emotional sometimes, but dont we all !

I'm still with the man I met during my break up, he teeats me with respect and kindness,and I wonder why I put up with my ex so long. We each live in our own homes , part of me is reluctant to live with someone

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39 with my whole life in front of me

Lost romance

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