Explain to me why Not even the passport went Certificates left, old and dry All clothes remained Books once cherished in piles Family photos in boxes with files Traces of a life gone, erased People left standing, looking amazed Unknown to me, the life had died The person who was had no trace All became twisted, wrapped in lies Haunted now by memories I face A relative passes and there is support Friends & family ever present & kind Departed without trace leaves a fort People don't enter the world or your mind Time is your friend You want to heal but can't begin A

The wedding season will soon be upon us and like many who are divorced this will be at best an odd time, at worst and depending on where we are in our journey, we might simply choose to decline an invitation. If its a family wedding then we will of course want to feel happy and support the bride & groom. I found myself shopping for the kilt hire on line in preparation and thinking hard about how I felt about the whole shebang (no pun intended!) I know that I have come to admire those who choose to have a small private ceremony rather than the big bold statement. I have noted that these

Hi Not blogged much in the last week, kept meaning to do it, but never seemed to get round to it... So last time I wrote things seem to be moving at a rapid rate. He has re-evaluated the flat situation and because he cant get one with just a two month lease he has decided to move back in with his parents... It was really difficult last week when he was coming and going at home, things were so painful, I was not too bad when he was on a night out (due to his job) but the minute he was due home or came home I seemed to go forward one step and back five.. The crying episodes presently