Morning all !

Its  Monday and had a really interesting "chat" with G/F last night on MSN Messenger. Apart from her disagreeing with my solicitors advice (sol says leave things now until Jan and then start to push stbx re FMH sale as stbx said she WILL start to proceed with hosue sale, but G/F says she'd put house up for sale NOW if it was her), G/F invited me and 8yr old dau to her house for Boxing day. I HAD tried to wangle an invite to G/F sisters as G/F and son and family are there for xmas day, but she seemed reluctant to have me at her sisters with her etc... Suppose I sort of knew she

Friday.

Loads happening, almost too much to write about. In the outside world we had to have our cat put down this afternoon. Our kids wanted to be there and they were, but my stbx held her while she went to sleep. I wanted so much to be able to support her because I am a compassionate person no matter what the circumstances. She didn't let me get too close to start with but eventually cracked and let me give her a hug.

I didn't mention the new bracelet she is wearing proclaiming her love for her new man, which is a sign that I really am in the acceptance phase at last. A few weeks ago I would

Carrie,

Sorry - too long to post ....

I believe you have all the qualities that would make a man happy.

Trouble is, there are "about 3.3 billion males" (courtesey WikiAnswers) on the planet.

So I guess it's about finding that man (good luck, have fun and stay safe!).

What makes one man happy will drive another insane, what one finds cute another finds irritating, what one finds threatening, another finds attractive, what one finds sexy another finds a turn-off.

It really is endless...

As we all know there is no guarantee that the person we set our hearts on will be 'the one' to love them, always and