Well here I am, another weekend gone by and I've had a relaxed day at home, tidying up and sorting things out.  Weekends aren't nearly as lonely and solitary as they used to be.  I realise now that I'm very lucky to have my kids with me 24/7 and that their Dad must find it very difficult being away from them so much - his choice I know, but I get the best deal no question about that.

Its 2 years next week that he moved out and the nisi is due through shortly.  He left loads of his clothes here and files etc so I finally got up the courage to ask him if he wanted it all or if I should chuck it

As things have been going well for the past few weeks with the new gal in my life, we decided a few days in London together would be a good way to start things off and see how well we fare together in 5 days of constant contact.

I figure I have nothing to lose.  We've had many discussions about my history, her goals, our expectations, and the most important  part of all of this - my son's feelings.  I'll be flying in for a few days of business, then she'll be arriving later in the week for 5 more days of sightseeing and enjoying the city life.

My son will be visiting his mother.  I can't help

Hi all ... thought it was time i put a blog up here :)

Many of you know my situation and the pain i went through, my life has moved on and the only thing that even ties me to my ex is her unborn child ... if it's mine, who knows!

All I know is I have found happiness and just wanted to offer my support to all you wiki peeps ... times for a lot of you are very hard and even contemplating moving on is very hard for most to even think about right now.  Just know that time is a great healer and whatever the situation life has a way of working out .

I have met many great people here and made many