I leave for vacation shortly and am feeling happy and positive. Planning, booking and preparing for this journey has been good for me. Not only has it given me something to look forward to and a distraction from the stresses of late, it has given me the opportunity to connect with my friends and realise how fortunate I am. I have had to ask for help with dog-sitting, cat/house sitting, lifts to the airport, places to stay once back in England - all requests have been fulfilled and I am feeling full of respect and love for my friends. I've made this journey a lot of times over the years,

Well, as my previous blog, just wanted to update a little, not been here for a while, just amazes me how many floods of people continue to arrive. Anyhow as last blog, married in october and honeymoon last month. Not so many years ago, I didnt think I would be in a position to even get my caravan to europe again let alone fly emirates to south africa, on the way stayin gin a gold room in Dubai.... Just goes to show you, this Karma thing, its real al right. My new wife is wonderful, we are in love as much now as when we met, we had the most wonderful time on our honeymoon, 2 weeks of ebing

Wrote the following yesterday in the forum, but am repeating it here and wondering how you all feel about being single? I should add that I know some (many) people on wiki are keen to find love and partnership again. This is absolutely NOT the case with me, I have no desire ever to have a 'significant other' in my life and so am as things stand proud and pleased to be single. Just not sure where 'divorced' fits in. Does it make me a failure or a survivor, and does it matter? *** Form filling the other day, and for the first time I found myself writing 'divorced' in the box.