So I sent her a note detailing financs and how her proposal was unfortunatly not going to work as i would be tens of thousands out of pocket. I thought the message was concise, factual giving variatons using her values on propert and mine (at least i had some done and am not guessing!). No reply on that as yet... So i have attempted to get access for valuations - offering to put the local agents in a hat and pick 3 to get the average as an agreed value. No reply for 10 months.. so i went to the sol and said deal with her sol and get surveyors in... At this point she started saying she

So I met her to hear her proposal... 30 mins before we meet i get a call from my mum to tell me her life long friend who i call aunty.. tho she isnt... has cancer and been given 2 months... a sobering thought that drags you back into realising what is really important in life. S2BX knows Aunty so i told her when we met... she was shocked and offerred to curtail the meeting but I wanted this done. So our friend went and sat around the corner.... enbarressing that he was needed really but S2BX seemed to feel better about the situation so needs must. The offer... S2BX keeps the fmh and

Almost 2 yrs since he left and 7 mths since he started divorce proceedings and finally he has all his paperwork for form e.Makes me laugh to think he should have just waited for the two year separation and saved us both money,but no he had to tell our daughter bout ow and then dash straight to solicitors to start divorce. Such lies he tells too,he had to start divorce proceedings cos ow being a muslim was not allowed to be with him till he was divorced and yet they've been on four holidays together upto now! Anyway we should now be able to sort out finances,altho not holding my