Okay.... it's a stupid title but there's two blogs in one here!!! lol

 

Flowers.... "you don't buy me flowers anymore"

Very apt.... as my STBX always bought me flowers....... birthday's... christmas'es.... anniversaries....

The reason being..... he knows/knew how much I love fresh flowers in my home.... and he knew how much I appreciated the thought and effort behind him sending me flowers....

No matter where he was in the country/world he always managed to send me flowers.... and I loved him for it !!!!!

I have always had fresh flowers in my home..... nothing special.... just 'supermarket'

Just to say a thank you to those who wished me luck for yesterday 14th Nov for my FDR hearing, i woke up feeling nervous i could'nt eat a thing, my dad drove me to court we had to drive past it.There walking in was tweedle dee and tweedle dum how she dolled herself up to be sitting in a waiting room awwww.I refused to sit in the public waiting room with them so i had the side room, my barrister joined me and we went over a few things, my ex called my barrister outside and handed him a new Form E he had swore that morning, we had a breif look over it , in there are letter's to the CSA he

Well the weekend has come and gone, if ex is in I am out and visa versa. It has got to the stage where the weekends are spent with friends or family just to get out of the marital home if ex 2 b is there. Sometimes I wonder how we ever reached the point we are at!

The week days are so pre occupied with work related issues coming back to the mh is just about getting something to eat and going to sleep ready for the next day so not so much of a problem being here.

Sometimes this divorce seems as if it is taking forever, last week was another week where nothing appears to have happened. I was told