Well I have had news on decree nisi. The judge has thrown it out because he wants specific dates the adultry was committed, even though my Stbx has admitted it. What does it matter? So I have to pay another £95 and associated sol costs for a new petition. I can't understand it! Mt solicitor doesn't understand it! It just drags everything on. I have decided not to have any contact with Stbx at all, after he abused me on the phone the other day and I cried for a day and a half. The kids both have mobiles but at the minute have decided not to see him, so there are no arrangements to

just testing this blog thing... been on the chat page for 3 weeks now (tonight is my 3 weeks anniversary) . met some great people and got some good advice this week is potentially the week I move out from the family home into rental. still working on the mortgage of the family home (massive neg. equity). but waiting on a call from bank on Tuesday on the situation! have my letter of readiness for the courts so I can go see the judge ready to get my decree nisi... so it is all systems go! dreading the chat with the kid about the split but has to happen some

got letter from its solicitor today with my 'unreasonable behaviour'. no mention of his adultery just a list of the things that 'drove him to it' utter load of codswallop. needless to say I was not happy.