After not hearing from him for a little while my ex is at it again, hounding me with crap. Still waiting for our consent order to come through, we have done a fixed price divorce through Brethertons and I have to say it is VERY slow. We signed all the paperwork months ago, and thought it was in court, then just had another email saying it had been with quality control and there was one small change before it was going to be finally sent to court. eX went mad, apparently it's all my fault, as is everything! Even though we have split and settled all our finances and the business he has said

Although I have commented (sparingly) on blogs and discussions since the beginning of the year, thought it was time for my own update. Nisi eventually granted end of April – had to “prove” to the court we have lived separately whilst sharing an address – Proved and open for the world to see on Rightmove!! (house, annex, annex, house – not connected apart from water and electric) Was a bit scary though! He wasn’t impressed with solicitor’s advice re his possible death and my entitlement as his widow if Absolute delayed – what a shame! Sign up to consent order….. I didn’t know he might die

I should have done this 18 months ago but I thought "we can do this amicablly surely"... Wrong!! So Wrong! Its going to cost me a lot of money now but I am at the point where I really dont care. I want it done and dusted asap. Shame i didnt listen to people earlier! So FDR date through... back to the paperwork and Eform filling in. Some worrying stuff has come to light in my readings this weekend. I had no idea the transfering of half the FMH to her would be liable to capital gains tax unless we get it done within 3 years of separation!! OUCH!! that leaves us 5 months! Need to get some