During the discussions today over email with my soon to be ex-husband, he took a potshot at me that just smacked of desperation. He has decided not to complete the acknowledgement of service of my divorce petition to make life easier for me. This will save him from having to list all the reasons why he fell out of love with me. He disagrees with the reasons for the divorce that I listed in the petition, especially the one where I note he was having an affair. From what I've seen on this site, it's a common theme for husbands who are having an affair to blame their wives. What a cliche. My

This is said with a slight smile on my face - Ex and other woman haven't split up - but I always knew that. Kids are confused and I can't help them because I don't want to know what's going on. This pain shopping has to stop. I have the feeling of going backwards at the mo. Have booked in to recommence counselling. It's nearly a year since I learned the painful truth that he preferred OW over me and left, despite him still asking to come back 'home' and sending me emails saying meeting her was the biggest regret of his life and he had lost the love of his life - does he mean me, surely

Well I saw my solicitor today, she had a very quick check over my Petition and it's spot on. So a big, big thank you to all those Wikis who assisted me. So, unless some terrible accident befalls me tomorrow I will be taking it to the Court at lunch time to hand it in, and then there's no going back. I am feeling very intrepid about his reaction when it lands on his door mat, which I have a feeling won't be great. But he does know it's coming. But hey ho, my own feelings haven't been great for a while now, and has he taken them into account, no. Soon I will be joining the thousands