Took your advice and emailed about starting proceedings. Initial answer to: Are you going to apply or should I as it's been 2 yrs now. I need the Nisi as a minimum for Son's Student Loan stuff in January / February. His reply: NO Then a text: If we can agree that we take our own debts and 50 Fifty on sale of house, and we leave each others pensions alone. That’s fair 7:23pm 16-Sep-13. I’m recording the text on here in case he changes his mind and the text is deleted as it was on my work mobile. So I emailed again explaining that divorce and consent are 2 separate issues. Next email:

Another letter/ solicitor offer. This time though, for the first time since my partner started down this road, his solicitors have put forward what they think that he should consider for a settlement. In the past they have just asked him what he would like. I know that they have done this as they, like me are concerned for his health. It's no where near what he would like and it would mean walking away with a lot less than has been suggested in the past. It would however mean an element of closure and enable him to move on. There would need to be some strict conditions added to the

Hello everyone You will have to bare with me as this is the first time that I have ever written a blog entry. I thought that it would be a good way of helping me to help my partner through the emotional minefield that is divorce as well as get things off my chest. So here goes..... It is a week now since court and still nothing from his stbx so I'm not holding out much hope that she will comply. I really do hope that I'm wrong for once. Since last week my partner has been talking to my dad about what his child said when he saw them in court. My dads words to me were that for the