Anyone have any ideas why my ex husband is prepared to go to prison rather than see our matrimonial property . Quick update, husband caught cheating over 2 years ago and we are now divorced. Husband allowed to stay in home as did not work but lived with girlfriend and has for all this time. We had no contact for this period and I won court hearing. I discovered on returning to the home and he admitted that he was decorating it the way I wanted prior to my discovery but stopped as he didn’t know what was happening. He also asked me to feel the muscles on his back. I was gob smacked. Since then

Hi,

I have never written a blog before but one of the lovely, kind moderators on here suggested it might be a good thing to do to try to help make sense of this horrible situation and my complete despair.

My husband and I have been married for nearly 22 years and together for nearly 25. It was a 2nd marriage for both of us. We both had baggage from our respective pasts and I suppose that's why we were attracted to each other. His 1st wife was bi-polar and in the end he couldn't cope with it and he left her. I think I always felt I had to be 'happy' in order for him to stay.

We were fairly happy