Should have done all this 18 months ago and it will probably cost me as a result but onwards we plod... Running out of ink in the printer as I run off copies of everything for the Eform.... 2 copies of everything so i dont get billed for the Sol this time for copying it all again! Expensive lesson learnt there! Accountant secured to help work it all out as its geting complicated and i want a proffesional pack to add into the Eform pack for the court. She has spun so much and made wild claims of under valuation etc. Need to cover bases so i can afford a roof over my head when all is said

Although I have commented (sparingly) on blogs and discussions since the beginning of the year, thought it was time for my own update. Nisi eventually granted end of April – had to “prove” to the court we have lived separately whilst sharing an address – Proved and open for the world to see on Rightmove!! (house, annex, annex, house – not connected apart from water and electric) Was a bit scary though! He wasn’t impressed with solicitor’s advice re his possible death and my entitlement as his widow if Absolute delayed – what a shame! Sign up to consent order….. I didn’t know he might die

Been a while.. Tomorrow is the date the council have said they will publish the decision on her planning application on "my house".... A tad worried but the council have said they see no reason at all to agree to her proposals especially as it is obvious she can not realise her requests as she does not have any interest in the property legally at all. Fingers tightly crossed! My daughter continues to flourish at UNI. I have been much more open with her about things and she seems to be coping and understanding things. She is buried in her studies (or says she is lol) most of the time and