Hi All Really quick one as I am well annoyed.. I am trying to avoid court for the costs and well I just don't want to do it. I have spoken to Cafcas who are going to recommended mediation, her NEW solicitors have asked for mediation. We explained we asked for mediation twice a month for 4 months as least, and were ignored. Cafcas are confused why I am going to court as I have access and overnight, I had to explain to a confused office that I had to threaten court action to get overnight and it took a further month to actually extract what the access was. So I asked for some simple

Another letter/ solicitor offer. This time though, for the first time since my partner started down this road, his solicitors have put forward what they think that he should consider for a settlement. In the past they have just asked him what he would like. I know that they have done this as they, like me are concerned for his health. It's no where near what he would like and it would mean walking away with a lot less than has been suggested in the past. It would however mean an element of closure and enable him to move on. There would need to be some strict conditions added to the

Positive bit I had my little girls from 10am Saturday to 5pm Sunday... was amazing, we had time together no pressure no worries. I loved it and so did they. I know they did as both asked to say with me and not go back. But as you all know its shared care and we have to be respectful and responsible. Its the STBX birthday, last weekend we made cards and I ordered a very expensive canvas for her, for the new secret house from the girls of the girls. Quote from my eldest when I gave her the wrapped present to open "Look mummy you do have a present to open" Who knows what shes been