Hello people in my computer, it's been a while, almost 7 years to be exact, not sure who is still around from those heady days but I find myself back here and looking again for some help and assistance. You were all great in helping me get to decree nici but I have a major problem now. To get this far we have agreed monthly payments, access, apportionment of the equity in the house, part of my pension (not a lot bearing in mind I have to work for another 17 years). We made the court application having formed the financial deal and I lent her some thousands from my part of the

I honestly feel that I honestly feel like 18 months if this (well 2 years since I found out about affair number five and the and the turmoil suffered) I just want to go and take our 4 and 2 year old to him and run away 2 glasses of wine tonight (he has tried to say I am an alcoholic ) although the judge through out his claim and instead asked him to take a test which showed nearly. 80 units a week What's the pint anymore he will abuse me and be little me and lie and manipulate until my dying days and his words 'take me back to court at every single opportunity to get residency ) because

Ok well here goes Just about had enough of it all and haven't really even started yet. Decree Nisi granted 17/12 should be able to get absolute end of January, but their lies the problem, yet again they have cancelled the first hearing because stbx's solicitor now can't make it on that day, delays, delays, delays!!!! Also had stbx demanding at 5am after the child court appearance what I had said to the CAFCASS officer, he woke me up demanding i told him, so i told him i was going back to sleep. Next morning I wrote to his solicitor asking her to stop this behaviour. Then I had him