Well I know this is just my version and I would love to know my wifes opinion or view as its going to be very different to mine... Today I, sorted both children for b'fast, and went to work, then came home from work took the wifes cat to the vet, paid £40 for its flea stuff, came home to not a word of thanks or anything.. as normal... ended up takign the girls to nursary, making me really realy late back... Then got a call from nursary, (Guess who they call first..) eldest isnt right.. I went and got her and her sister at 4:45ish.. not much early but a bit, I finish at 5:15 left work at

SO my story is fairly well documented, as is evidently my controlling behavior!! ?? After the arguments of the last few days, me begin accused of forcing my wife into bankruptcy.. I spent the whole day considering what I can do. I decided against the advice of people I work with that I would pay some money directly to nursery to offset the costs to my 'wife' I pickup the standing order form, and go home in the knowledge that my wife is going to struggle to be angry or able to complain or accuse me of anything but helping financially buy almost literally paying for

Hi All, me again.. I have just email the divorce people asking to issue the divorce without a statement of care for the children as I cannot carry on like this. I don't know why I have delayed issuing it.. but now I have to. Last night I told my wife I cannot afford to leave, and actually that was fine, we talked about moving the rooms around and carrying on. Then she started to play with her phone. She then told me she was going out... fair enuf but frankly it was all OK. This morning however a completely different story.. she just simply asked me why I cannot afford to leave,