I am sad... Very sad..... I can't smile and I do t want to.... My ex has been away with my girls abroad... That's nearly 2 weeks without seeing them. And I can only dream of taking them away. Arrhhhh.. So where am I in the divorce proceedings.. Divorce nisi done, child arrangements done but as you know at the expense of residence. Now it's finances and this is painful.. I am trying to get it sorted but I am guessing my ex knows how much trouble I am in and if inflicting as much pain as possible. And my finances are spiralling out of control in my mind. I look at my life and realise I

Hi All So I count myself lucky compared to alot of fathers, I have a Court order in place which my EX is respecting, misquoting but respecting.. Christmas, I basically had my girls ever other night from the 21st... to the 1st... and well I loved it and my home was completely destroyed in a good way. So this week is my daughters birthday, in fact today and I have sent a card and a silly present nothing special, as I have presents for her at my home for the weekend. This was going to be a moan message but really I have to look at what I have and realise that maybe I am lucky. I

So I emailed my STBX wife and asked for access at the weekend one evening.. Amazingly I got a yes and also a host of bits to help with the evening.... I was so happy its amazing.. my girls overnight.. THE A PHONE CALL Why do I have another solicitors letter asking for the new address, and then it got worse and worse. I am a bad father, I should not have processed the court application as she was increasing access, but of course I have had to prompt nothing has been offered. And I had no idea if she will or wont increase access She repeated I forced her and the children out of