Its all over at last. I am free of my past marrriage of 33 years.............. The relief, the instant relesase of the stress valve,  but the emotions still running riot.......... 

I went to what was supposed to be a pre trial hearing, ordered by the DJ, to sort out FH dates and statement of issues. ........The DJ turned it int a full blown FDR, with our permission, and retraced all the issues.........He then gave directions on his thoughts of the FH outcome and costs............Frightening or what!  £20k costs for a 2 day hearing and an outcome that I expected but my X would not

Seem to spending ages getting all the evidence together for Final Hearing....... All the memories are coming back, the pain, the hurt, my X's years of adultery...................... I just wonder why she continues to accuse me of so many things, which are completly untrue. Now getting text messages which are hurtfull............. She knows she has caused me to have years of depression and I am still being treated............ I just dont know what to do next.

The Final hearing is certainly not something to look forward

Well had my first hearing in November 2007.......Lots of accusations made by her and her sol & Barristor........ Counter accusations by myself and sol......DJ gave his directions which amounted to more information to be supplied to each sol.. All over inside 3 hours......Back home just wondering how a wommen I had known for so long could become so bitter, angry and vindictive......Xmas over, having spent a great time with my new partner....Sols begin to exchange even more info......More accusations and lies aimed at me.......FDR day arrives... 3hours chatting with barristor about my