Okay… You know those news reports (well, maybe not here in the UK too much, but certainly in the States) where they find dozens and dozens of bodies in some guys basement and they interview the neighbours, and all the neighbours are like, "I'm just so surprised...he was always so nice and quiet and polite"!!! That’s me. I’m the surprised neighbour. I had no idea that the guy I was marrying was…okay, not a serial killer, but a killer of other things like; hopes, dreams, self-esteem, self-worth, confidence. Am I being overly dramatic? Possibly. ‘Cause at the end of the day…I am

Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love said: "I disappear into the person I love. I am the permeable membrane. If I love you, you can have everything. You can have: my time my devotion my ass my money my family my dog my dog’s money my dog’s time —everything. If I love you... I will carry for you all your pain I will assume for you all your debts (in every definition of the word) I will protect you from your own insecurity I will project upon you all sorts of good qualities that you have never actually cultivated in yourself I will buy Christmas presents for