Haven't seen him now since just before the Easter weekend & hope that he drops off the face of the Earth! Can't imagine why I wasted 28 years  of my life on  it. He asked me to divorce him as he had nothing on me, had moved out in his own flat with his work to keep him company, I agreed as I felt he was gone & had to move on for me & the kids. He's now living his batchelor life in London, has had 4 hols abroad since begining of 07, we have not been able to afford one.

 He has planned this from before day one & totaly manipulated the situation to what he thinks is his advantage. He has got my

Bl**dy computer just threw me off when I'd nearly finished writing so I've got to start all over again! Oh well, here goes!

Hubby came home last night to talk to son about the trouble he has got in, dont know if he said much different to what has already been said but at least he has tried. I didn't get in from work till about 11.30 as we had a busy shift and he had made his bed on the sofa by then. Exchanged a few calm, polite sentences before I went to bed. Felt like I really wished it was like when he was a different person but know it won't be. Woke as he was leaving this morning, he said

At moment head feels like its spinning and its all getting to much. Feel like I just want it all to go away and be moved to a new house with this all behind me or for it to be how it was when things were happier and this would never happen. Son has got in some minor trouble with police (reprimanded not charged thank god, but don't need this with everything else. Worried for his future) he's basicaly a good lad but thinks he's grown up at 16 and can do as he wants, doesn't see consequences. Steps have been taken to put him right but now hubby has told him (not me, thinks he can just appear