went to see sol today. she said that if the house is sold it would go in favour of wife because if the kids 18,16 went with her she would have to rent a bigger house and i would have to pay the extra as well as maint??, when i told her this she said if i moved out and payed the mortgage and endowments untill the youngest doesnt need the house anymore then she would agree to a 50,50 split, if i dont do this she will take me for all she can get, thats great considering i dont want this in the 1st place. so it looks like it could be going from a lovely house to a room in someone elses house. is

wife suddenly decided after a week away with her family she liked her freedom and wanted out of our marriage. result,totally gutted. no 3rd party involved. married 22 years 60k mortgage 200k equity. 2 kids, one aged 18 working. one aged 16 looking for work. doesn,t want relate or mediation, just me to move out and pay most of the bills. i have never seen such a change in anybody, cold, doesn,t want to talk wants as little to do with me as possible. when i walk in,she walks out.going to see a solicitor this week to find out what my options are. this is day 9 and my head is all over the place.