Do not, and I repeat DO NOT  get tempted to drink too much in a bar, on holiday at some unearthly hour in the middle of the night.  Just because you may now be single is absolutely no excuse to act like a teenager.

And if those photos ever appear on youtube, they are not me, I was never there and can never go there

Well decision made, having such fun as I am, so am staying single and fancy free.  Having a moment of pure clarity, thinks to myself, am I happy, yes, am I lonley, no, do I need a relationship to make me happy, give me self worth, absolutely not?  Am going it alone, yes, yes , yes.

PS.  I do have a signed photo of Orlando Bloom on my bedroom wall, so once past the six pack of Ricky any guy would have to comptete with the athletic form of an elf in my bedroom.  It aint gonna happen, my fantansies are just too much for any ordinary guy to compete with, so I am not even going to go there, I will

Another quick thought on relationships.

I have been given an original painting of Ricky Whittle and have hung him nice and evenly in my sitting room over the fire place.  

So I have a very well hung Ricky painting on my wall.

 So if I were to bring a guy back would I have to take the painting down?  Hmmm, I dont think so.

In a shameless effort of self advertising, can I just say I have completed a course and an qualified to do 2D and 3D autocad.  Anybody need a CAD tech?  Will travel, especially if place is sunny and warm.

May I add that if you are on benefits or working tax credits you can get