Good afternoon Wiki peeps! My name is sadbird2 and I have been a member of Wiki since 2008 when my world came crashing down about my ears. It's been 4 years that have changed me, hopefully for the better! I have been in my own house for 2 and a half years, I have moved jobs a couple of times, I have built up a network of my own fun and supportive friends, my children continue to do well at school and have got through the difficult times with me. I have a new partner (well, not that new, coming up for 2 years now!) who I met through an internet site, and life is pretty good. I have

Good morning Wikis, I havent blogged since last year and thought I would let you all know how my new life is progressing.

I still pop into the site, and read your blogs and know exactly what you are going through. I wish I had a magic wand so that I could fast forward your lives to a time when you are over all the pain and upset of your situations. I know how dark the days can be,  that sometimes you think it will never stop hurting, and that you wonder what it was you did to deserve all this heartache - but believe me, you can and will get through it. You will find reserves of strength you

Just to let everyone know that on Wednesday, the children and I moved into our new home. It was difficult and emotional to leave the MH, but it is a fresh start for us, and I am leaving all the memories behind. There is no reason for me to have any contact with the ex (something he cannot understand) anymore, my new life is about to start.

The removal guys were fab, my mum, Kev and the kids worked really hard so that by the time we went out for a celebratory meal on Wednesday evening, the house almost looked like home! The children have gone to stay with their dad til Sunday, so I have been