Hi all

     Just need to get a few thingd of my chest .

Yet again just as i was having an up day she has managed to get me crying again

I don't think i have cried in my whole life as much as i have in the last 4 or 5 weeks.

Today she finally told her mother . Well all she told is that WE had decided to separate but for her not to worry and everyone is ok.

Well my 16 year old daughter is handling it very and i am so proud of her .Even as i write this i am in my bedroom, as she has a friend over, she has come into the bedroom to give me a hug as she knows i'm upset again . Should men be this

Hi folks . This is my first blog so please exuse any ranting and raving that i am probably going to put in here .

On the 21st of june 2008 i thought my world had come to an end and things could not get any worse after 15 years of marriage and 19 years as a couple we ,i say we it was mainly her decision, to end our marriage. On the 22nd of june after a day of talking to a mutual friend i suddenly realised she was having an affair . I didn't think it could be much worse until she told me it had been going on for NINE MONTHS . How can someone be so niave and so stupid .

Looking back the signs