Well it's been a while since I've been on Wiki, but it's been on my mind for a few days. In the end I just had to come back. But what a shock.... NO CHAT. Ok I can see the reasons for the change but NO CHAT. I was looking forward to sticking my head in there and saying hello, seeing how others have been getting on that went through it at the same time, letting others that are just starting out on the rocky road that things do get better.

  Things do get better. It's a slow process and to start with I thought that I'd never get through it. I had my heart ripped out and left to stew in my own

  Well it's been a while since I've written anything. The divorce was completed a while ago now. To be honest I can't even remember the date that it went through. I guess that's what you call coming to terms with it. I feel sad every now and then, but I suppose that can on ly be expected, but those feelings are becoming much less frequent, Yipee. In a way I have been so lucky going through this. We never got around to having any children so there are no battles to go though over them. My heart goes out to those who do, it's hard enough to go through this on your own without having to look

  Well it's been a while. A long while. So what's changed?

   Lots.

  I have more than come to terms with the divorce. I was sad just before christmas when the papers arrived form the courts. I nice gift a week before. It wasn't a suprise, it's not as if they were a shock, there was not "Oh my God what's going on?". I was more upset with the timing. It's not a nice gift to give at that time of year. Well that was then.

   The first decree was granted last week. And to be honest other than feeling a bit sad that was all. When this all started I was in floods of tears. It didn't take much to set