Dotti6157's Blog

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I am a 60 year old man and the applicant in this divorce I was married to my wife for 22 years but together over 25 years, I was diagnosed with MS in 1998 and tried to carry on working until 2007 at which time it was impossible for me to work and some times the only way I knew what day it was is looking at my medication tub if it was Tuesday then I knew it was Tuesday, Once I stopped work depression set in and this is what has brought our marriage to a end. my wife is a fit and active girl and I think she couldn't understand that the care I needed was a little more than holding my hand but this is life and now we are coming to the FA I am broke she is rich I need some of her money she wants to keep it, and I find this very sad that after all these years money is the main factor. I moved away after getting the nisi to Scotland 550 miles away from her so that I couldn't see her which I thought would make it easier, well that didn't work I miss her like mad but she just carries on with life as if I was never there, Thankfully I had the luck to find this site and now I am self representing I look every day for advice and to try and understand how others in my predicament cope and I don't feel so alone anymore But now I suppose the fight really starts I think its all about self preservation she is trying to come to a deal with my son regarding monies but at this time we are league's apart she wants to give very little and I don't want to take a lot but the area in the middle is where we need to settle, I thank god that we never had children in this marriage because of our ages and where I tried very hard to make all the kids from our previous marriages be as one family now the differences are clearly showing very sad

Apr 11

2017

What a week

Posted by Dotti6157 in money and finances, general interest, financial disclosure form E, financial arrangements, depression loneliness, debt and bankruptcy, dealing with the court, dealing with solicitors, attending court, accepting its over

well I set of last sunday 1t 0400 in the cold and drove the 10 hours to my FMH and supprisingly i was greeted with a smoile and the offer of a cup of tea, Unfortunatley that was the end of pleasentries.

I have done a load of jobs around the house to spruce it up a bit, On the first monday i had to deliver my second form E to her solicitors and collect my stbx copy, That same afternoon she had to visit her solicitor well !!! it was all down hill from the minute she came back to the house and ever since it has been hard to get two words from her accept when was i going back... however this

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Mar 30

2017

Here We Go

Posted by Dotti6157 in tired and exhausted, my story, money and finances, letters and paperwork, holidays, general interest, financial disclosure form E, financial arrangements

I am all set to travel back to Wiltshire and I will be staying at the former MH and my STBX will also be there.

I am hoping and praying she doesnt start her taunting

sdhe knows how to light my fuse so I am ready to just get up and go to my room if she starts, The estate agent says that she has not been awkward regarding viewings but at the same time no very helpful. The house has been on the market for 8 months and had 5 viewings so I have suggested putting another agent on the sale, She says she will consider it.. I thnink she should be happy to try another agent but thats my way of

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Mar 20

2017

Taking Control

Posted by Dotti6157 in positive thinking, money and finances, general interest, depression loneliness, dealing with emotions, attending court

Having listened to my STBX telling me what to do regarding Form E and just about everything else. We now dont speak.. I have filed form D11 application to move case to a local court. I say local it is still a 5 hour drive for me to attend. So I have moved the case from SW reginal to Lancaster. My son has agreed to come with me for support I didnt realise that i will be up against a Barrister but i know that as long as you tell the truth no Barrister can harm me.. I cant say that I am happy but I do feel a lot more confident but

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