Sorry 2nd blog of the day....

After months of keeping stbx's secret from my Sons we've just found out my eldest who has just completed first year at Uni has passed every single exam!! No retakes for him!! I am so proud, have told family and friends and wanted to share with you all and thank you all for all your support and encouragement during my 5 months of hell......if I had to make the decision again I wouldn't change a thing!!! So blog 2 for me today....time for a very, very large glass of red me thinks!!! Cheers and thank you to you all ! Hic!  Hic!

It's been three weeks since he left...and my oh my what a three weeks its been! The washing machine died, my car failed its MOT, clutch went on Son's car... my old life..stbx would have fixed and sorted all but..my new life.. washing machine sorted..car has MOT ...Son has new clutch...all sorted by me! Yes little old me now HAS to do this alone and do you know what?...I can! Last weekend Son got a parking ticket! Popped into get a sandwich and got a £70 fine! Being the sensible adult "let me sort it" I said, so took it to deal with it and do you know what? I lost it!! Yes little ticket ( A5

Well hi

2 weeks ago today was our "telling " day..and what a 2 weeks it has been! Anger, disbelief, tears and sadness but now so sureal! How has our family unit changed so ... BBQ's for four are now for three, three settings at the family table, three lots of washing..the changed list goes on? But I've sat here today with my two gorgeous Sons, had a BBQ ( they cooked) and thought is this really so bad? We've had a nice weekend, ok stbx is living somewhere new but we are still here, we have to eat , have clean clothes and get on so is really four becoming three all that bad? Yes we are sad, we