My life as a single person rather than a separated person has been on-going for about the last 6 months I guess.  During this time I have attempted to change my label, I am no longer the same person I was when I first registered on this site, and I no longer want to dwell on the past.

I needed wiki, it was a god send, a place where I could speak to people who were going through similar emotions to me, who fed off of each other and in that mutual support environment I also got to feel good about the support I could give to other people, well done Ian your site has and does work wonders.

So

Since my last blog and since I separated from my ex, 2 years pretty much by the end of this month.

During this time, my baby girl has become a fully fledged princess, and my little boy an 8 year old adult.  They are still finding it difficult to understand, they stay with me less now than they did, since my ex moved my sons school making it difficult for them to stay with me during the week.  We have less time with each other, and I feel less and less like their father, more like a strange uncle who lives around the corner, but might as well be on the other side of the planet.

They are with me

Just a short one, I stood up to her, she has appologised for moving my sons school without talking to me.  She has changed her mind about changing the access arrangements.

I am happy/releaved, and so are the children, it feels good to have that I have put her in her place, maybe for the first time in our relationship,