Actually.. thats an exageration. What she did was find out from my daughter that I was away with said daughter and let herself in...took the garden furniture.. some paintings and then left a picture of she and I as a screen saver on my computer..(I must change both computer login and locks!!). The garden furniture I'm not fussed about. It was left to her in the divorce but the big gas barbie she'd bought as a 'gift' for me a year before we split.. well she took that.. Nah.. not an issue... I hadn't used it all summer.. but the picture in the living room..another 'gift' she helped herself

So this is the scenario. You sit in a courtroom (the Repondent (Me), the Petitioner (her) and each one's solicitor and a judge. Everyone knows (except the judge) the in's and out's of the case..especially the two of you getting divorced..but at the second hearing it's still up to the solicitors to do the talking on your behalf..so this is the point all the money you've paid comes to fruition (or not). The piles of paperwork..the details of the case.. the solicitors advice about 'what you should be entitled to' come to pretty much naught when it's all about the opinion of one other human

Long time no speaky... I've been getting on with 'LIFE' with relative success I guess. Still got my job and now amazingly possibly gettinga promotion. Joined the Meet Up's website and been very busy doing photography clubs so thats got me a whole new social circle and a real creative outlet! Met some great people through this and I'm amazed more people don't do it. it's a great way to belong... Looking for a new place as the current one is on the market. I've got my 2nd court appearance Friday..in Wandsworth. First one the stbx placed in Surrey for some stupid reason (probably because she