Well its been a long time since I wrote on here.

I feel like my whole life at the moment is going from one anxious worry to another. Just when I feel I've turned a corner, something else pops up and back I go. I wonder if I will ever get on top of this roller coaster of emotions. I've been split from my now ex husband for two and a half years and I've done everything I can to take control of my life. My own home, a good job and a great relationship so why do I feel so anxious. I suppose I'm worried it will all fall around my ears again. I find it hard to feel I'm making the right decisions about issues, try to second guess what will

Hi All Life is awesome, I am enjoying myself alot and well no communication with EX is good communication frankly. I have my girls alot, 117 nights a year infact.. (Depending who you ask) I unfortunately got a pay rise, I say unfortunately as I immediately called the CSA to tell them. As I knew my payments would rise I set them straight on number of nights.. from 0 to 117 pa. Reduction of nearly £140 pm.. but something I wasn't going to implement I just wanted to defend my pay rise. And have the actual real calculation. Also shows I have over paid by nearly 6k to