The last three weeks have been great, I've been happier, the kids have been happier then last Friday the ex comes back from holiday and starts texting me.   Not the kind of text I was expecting.....he hadn't asked for the kids in the whole time he was away so obviously when I got the message and it was from him I was expecting him to ask how the kids were but no he text me to tell me that his sister's mother-in-law had died.  I have never met the woman and have absolutely no idea why he felt this information was of any relevance whatsoever to my life.    I ignored the text and did not reply. 

Thought I should write because I haven't for a wee while and quite a lot has happened.

 Ex dropped the kids off last Sunday (14th) and said nothing.  Monday morning got a letter from his solicitor to say that he was going on holiday on the 18th (our wedding anniversary) and would not be seeing the kids for the next three weekends.  Was slightly annoyed at the last minute notice as I work every weekend and I had to quickly arrange childcare for the children.  Text him and asked him if he has explained to our daughter that he wouldn't be seeing her for so long and he said he had.  She said daddy

30th birthday went without a hitch.  Got asked out by someone at work and had a brilliant drunken night out with my girlies and had a wee drunken snog with someone very nice.  Ex brought the kids back early on Sunday morning and we had a little party in the house it was great.

Roll on Monday..................ex starts texting me telling me that he is very sad our marriage is over and he likes to remember the happy times we had together then he drops in the bombshell that if I hadn't asked him to leave the house nothing would have happened with the woman he is with now and they would be having