Hi all, I'm still alive and kicking just! Thought I'd pop in for a little update. So I'm still in the house, just. Still not speaking to stbx. Things took a little downward spiral after she had me arrested for assault. I was no further auctioned after giving my side if the story. End of. No. I then get the non molestation order through 3 days later staying I'm not allowed to communicate with her unless about the kids. (Fine by me) and also not allowed in the main bedroom. Again fine I took what I need out and that was that. Until my little one took my iPad upstairs one morning watching peppa

Received the Statement in support to sign today my stbx will not defend the adultery petition (he chose adultery over unreasonable behaviour, as if adultery isn't unreasonable)anyway that's positive the more straightforward the process is the better. He is also moving out this week, feeling a bit sorry for himself telling me how inconvenient it is while he is so busy etc. etc. how it will only be him in his tiny new place (born yesterday was I?) but also bouncing around like a teenager when the OW spares him some time. It hits home to see the fmh empty of his possessions and I've barely

I am still sharing a house with my Stbx, I am increasingly concerned about the amount he drinks. He has always been able to drink quite a lot of alcohol, but I suppose when he was at work there were days he didn't drink for a few days because of the shifts he worked. Now he is retired , although does some part time work, but drinks most evenings, both in the pub and when he is in the house. Tonight for example he has been to the pub, where he tells me he had 4 pints, now he has opened a bottle of wine. He told me yesterday he is seeing a counsellor about cutting down his drinking, and is