Yesterday I was sent a screenshot of my soon to be ex-husbands' Tinder profile. I talked about dignity the other week and how important it is to me. I live on a small island, only around 40,000 permanent residents, so your Tinder profile (and pretty much everything else you do) is seen and heard about by everyone. I was shocked, upset and a little confused. We split up because he was having an affair, so I don't know what's happened to the other woman. She's a crazy mad person so maybe he got bored already. Maybe he's desperate for attention. Maybe he's still looking for the happiness he

I still get little sharp stabbing pains in the heart, stbx seems to be in her going out a lot phase of separation. Separation from me, separation from OM. The I'm single so I'll be 21 again phase I guess. Friday nights out with her work friends. She would be the one to always drive as she never really drinks. Last two weeks it's been cabs knocking on the door for her. She went out Friday and my heart sank. I'm trying to let go and not think about it but this time it got me. I was laying on the sofa with my 2 year old reading her a story and all I wanted to do was burst into tears. I had

Well at long last the day has come when my almost ex is moving his stuff out, I'm am pleased this is happening but part of me feels sad. He is taking his half of the furniture and household things, so the house will look strange without them. I am going to be here for , hopefully only a couple of weeks before I also move out. Our eldest son has come to help his dad , for which I am grateful as he is good at keeping the peace between us, my ex is often very self centred and this is already obvious this morning , he is taking our main fridge freezer, we have another freezer in the garage into