Compelling viewing once more from Auntie Beeb (the BBC) is the TV programme "Call The Mediator. However hard we thought our own process was / is at the time its amazing to see how the lives of others can seem even more complicated and difficult. Also, how very hard it is to communicate with the ex. Both episodes so far have shown everything from a couple who are not married, but seperating, continually arguing over co parenting yet somehow ocassionally still sleep together, to a woman who lived with a much older man many years go, left him to marry someone else in the office, with whom she