I was married once - for 24 years. My nasty divorce was finalized in April of 2007, so it's been a little over a year since "officially" divorced. My ex husband still gives me grief as often as he can in regards to the kids, but hey - he's just a lonely "little" man that has to deal with things his way. He is very angry that he's lost his control over me.
I had a very hard time with my decision to get out of this marriage; I have since written a book about the disastrous marriage, the steps I took to get out and getting back on my feet again. You can find it posted here: