Anyone have any ideas why my ex husband is prepared to go to prison rather than see our matrimonial property . Quick update, husband caught cheating over 2 years ago and we are now divorced. Husband allowed to stay in home as did not work but lived with girlfriend and has for all this time. We had no contact for this period and I won court hearing. I discovered on returning to the home and he admitted that he was decorating it the way I wanted prior to my discovery but stopped as he didn’t know what was happening. He also asked me to feel the muscles on his back. I was gob smacked. Since then

After so many years of not knowing where your future can be found, there will come a day when it almost arrives unnoticed. This is because your pain has thankfully shrunk inside you to a small background hum. It is still there of course but having learnt to live with it for so long it has become a part of you that you can now control.