Hi Guys So I had my letter, we responded today accepting the access and requesting more access immediately. I had a text from the STBX demanding I respond to the Solicitors letter, if I do not she will not let me see my children. In the mean time I have had the CSA calling me talking about collecting funds and that I was expecting the call.. Err they have a home I am paying for and a occupation rights notice on the property. But they are calling me back. I have no money I have a good job and a good wage, but I haven't budgeted for solicitors, I certainly haven't budgeted 100% CSA

Hi all, Last night I had one of two, ten minute phone calls with the kids that she allows a week. Towards the end of the call I said to my little girl to make sure she packs everything on Saturday for our second stay over. The STBX came on the phone. " you're not having them this week. You're messing with the kids heads. " We agreed at mediation that I can have the kids every fortnight sat/sun starting the first weekend in april and fortnightly after that. Also as a birthday treat for me I had them on 28/03 overnight. That is written down in the notes. Also when it's my angels

There is a whole industry out there it would seem to 'help' us with marriage problems and to mediate a divorce process. I went to Relate on my own a few times and I know a few others who have done this. Naturally you only end up going on your own because the other person (wife or husband!) for whatever reason does not feel they can or need to accompany you! I went I think originally because I felt I needed lots of information not then about keeping my marriage together but because I needed advice about what support I could get. My counsellor was good I felt and Relate seemed able to help