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Sep 11

2019

Autumn Leaves

Posted by RockSteady in my story, moving on, love, general interest, being single, accepting its over

A painful divorce / separation can unfortunately leave us in a constant state of sensory deprivation. I know I was unable to feel any sense of joy or take any interest in the passing of the Seasons. If the Sun was shining I felt nothing especially the idea that it could warm me just as much as it could any other soul. It was impossible to look skywards when I was constantly looking down at the shoes on my feet or inwards at the source of agony. Summers passed me by. My heart had been frozen into the shock and cold tremble of Winter. I waited for an alternative kind of Spring which I somehow

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Feb 23

2017

Betrayed by my

Posted by 4phuxache76 in worry and anxiety, tired and exhausted, new relationships, moving on, love, her new man, grief and loss, dealing with emotions, dating, counselling or therapy, breaking up, being single, anger hate revenge, affairs and cheating, accepting its over

I have written and deleted so many intros to this I can't even count...I have never written a blog, but I figured that if I can write something down and maybe find some answers, then what the hell!!

I separated from my wife of 12 years back in August '16 after a 2 year battle with broken trust, which was the result of a meaningless drunken kiss I gave a girl on a work night out. The kiss came about at the end of the night, standing outside the bar at 3am when we were all saying our farewells to the girl, whom I had worked with for 4 years. When it came to my turn to say goodbye, we hugged and

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Dec 17

2016

Broken families

Posted by sungirl in love, choosing to stay or go, children, breaking up, affairs and cheating

i have been thinking alot today about a couple I know that are on the verge of splitting up. I don't know them very well, more a friend of a friend and a Facebook friend. However I could tell something wasn't right. The wife used to post lots of lovely and funny stories and photos of her lovely and much yearned for young family, the gorgeous house in the countryside they had refurbished and extended, and the walks close to their home in idyllic surroundings with dogs and childeren in tow. Plus the horse she loves to ride. Then the images changed to endless selfies, different poses in

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