Well into getting divorced sorting the kids and all going well have a non molestation order against my ex to be for her unreasonable behaviour problem looming is the finances part. I have a obessive ex who is obessed in finding out facts on me relating to finance and yes being self employed my finances are a mess and yes I got a bit carried away sellling shares problem is i think she will pull the form e apart any ideas on how to sort myself out to make matters worse she is seriously jealous and vindictive so is determined to rip me apart now will happily put the sale proceeds back but can i

Well arrived at OUR business again (running it single handely) to be met by the in laws. 'Hi you come to walk dogs?' I asked them No feeding them... shitty husband away with new bird for his birthday. Not a word to me. I had warning, a text he sent to me by mistake, a letter of confirmation from fab hotel address Mr & Mrs. The week has just gon e so quick I forgot it was Friday. I am flattened. Especially as his parents are so hostil to ME. I guess they only have his side.

Anyway have pulled myself together and spent some nice hours going thro things in fmh. Why. I just dont know, searching

I recieved my papers on Saturday.it didn't surprise me.seeing that I had lived a separated life for three years.I continued on making my lunch as if nothing had bothered me at all.Sunday:Woke up feeling sick .from the heart a strange feeling like somebody had died.I questioned myself was it me that had left the nest, the home, the life of those around me.I tried to keep calm and try to think of other things.Monday:Finally read the paperwork.Who looks after daughter?..MOTHER who pays the bills?FATHER.I was so angry after 25 years it had come to this. I had to find a solicitor.Luckily for me