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Today I surprised myself by being drawn to a place I had not been to for some time. It was the local church where at the start of my journey I had visited with my ex in order to attend a Relate meeting. This morning I did not intend to go there and I have not given it a thought for much of the time recently. I suppose I was close and my footsteps just ended up taking me there. There is a peaceful mural / painting on the wall as you enter. The chairs around and beneath invite you to sit and look at it. Its a view of the island of Iona and the tall stone cross, a symbol to the arrival of

Its been a long time since I've been on this site but it was so helpful to me when I got divorced in 2010. I spent the first couple of years after my divorce concentrating on my job & my children. I often felt lonely but I knew I had no choice than to try & move on. My ex had left to live with person he'd been having an affair with plus her 3 teenage children. They bought a 4 bedroom house 5 mins away. It felt like they had the perfect live whilst I struggled to juggle everything including my young twins esp the impact of dealing with my daughters disability as her health/condition got worse.