Anyone have any ideas why my ex husband is prepared to go to prison rather than see our matrimonial property . Quick update, husband caught cheating over 2 years ago and we are now divorced. Husband allowed to stay in home as did not work but lived with girlfriend and has for all this time. We had no contact for this period and I won court hearing. I discovered on returning to the home and he admitted that he was decorating it the way I wanted prior to my discovery but stopped as he didn’t know what was happening. He also asked me to feel the muscles on his back. I was gob smacked. Since then

I remember of course the first Christmas after my ex took off. He'd left out of the blue at the end of November.

Over xmas he was sunning himself in the Maldives (not that we knew that at the time). I had barely eaten or slept in a month. I had also witnessed the murder of my neighbour on my doorstep. I was beyond stressed. I'd no income, no idea what would become of us (my ex assured me that I would keep the house, but it seemed unlikely we could afford this, even before I knew he'd been secretly taking our savings to cover up for the fact that he'd not been earning).

Luckily I'd

Of course it can. ... However battered and brused we might be from the fall out and from whatever point we might be on that journey I want to extend a hand of friendship and best wishes to any Wiki readers who in this New Year time might feel that Xmas was at best for them .. just yet another period of painful reflection.