I am a decent man. Separated 5 years ago and gave ex 5 bedroom luxury home paid off and 44% of my salary every month in order to keep sons close by. A year ago she found a new man. I love my sons and will support sons to day I die. Not content with the house my ex is breaching separation agreement by working full time and also has partner living with her. Denying all this to solicitors in order to keep my maintenance at £1100/month. Not only do i feel that i am paying for sons but keeping her new man as well. No wonder they have two cars, van, motorbikes and camper van as no mortgage to pay.