Just been talking to my friends teenage daughter, aged 15 and I can honestly say I'm gobsmacked by the things she was telling me about what her friends get up to. I'll start by saying that these are normal girls, we don't live in a rough area and one is my niece (ex's step sister) so I know she is from a loving family. One of her friends has been giving a boy hand jobs so he will buy her weed and booze. My niece had slept with 3 boys at the age of 13, and will now sleep with anyone that will have her, wether they have girlfriends or not and if the girlfriend is a close friend... Well that

My STBXH asked for a divorce at the beginning of May. He is living abroad (not unusual in the oil business), so I think it has not been such a stressful situation as many of you have found yourselves in - he is already living somewhere else, and can afford to pay the mortgage, so in the short term life is pretty much as normal - except I now know an awful lot more about Scottish and English divorce law than I did a few months ago! My kids are older and there is no debate about where they will live, they have their own phones and chat regularly to STBX on the phone. I have launched into

Bless me Wiki's... its been a while since my last confession! Life has taken some weird turns of late. Work has been turned upside down with major reshuffles which we dreaded but ironically has resulted in the higher management noticing us and what we do... recognition and a few extra quid to spend on a meal with your wife.... hmmmm! the new boss obviously needs to spend some time getting to know his staff a bit lol. A few days away with my daughter went well but once back home its back to normal... hardly see or hear from her even though she is living with the ex just a couple of