I ask this because so far our individual counsellors seem to be saying you will know when to split and want to go down that route rather than promoting any couple counselling.
We are not at each other's throats, there has been no threats towards each other. 'Just' a growing coldness tpowards each other and a lack on each part to talk about what is actually bothering us. We have both been too stubborn to compromise our position - because, of course, each of us is right and the other is wrong/unfair/hostile to the other partner.
What have been peoples' views of counselling?
A waste of time?