i have been thinking alot today about a couple I know that are on the verge of splitting up.   I don't know them very well, more a friend of a friend and a Facebook friend.  However I could tell something wasn't right.  The wife used to post lots of lovely and funny stories and photos of her lovely and much yearned for young family, the gorgeous house in the countryside  they had refurbished and extended, and the walks close to their home in idyllic surroundings with dogs and childeren in tow.  Plus the horse she loves to ride.  Then the images changed to endless selfies, different poses in

I'm interested in what other people thought about this if they managed to see it recently on Channel 5? There were a number of takeaways for me I know. Briefly the power of personal relationships and the devastation actually on "both sides" that the affair can cause. I was struck by how those who chose to "cross the line" seemed to be far from "sorted" or living the perfect life now. Far from it. There was the woman who acknowledged that she knew that she and her lover had "obliterated two fully functioning families". Her guilt was there to see and she shared how shame combined with guilt can

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