Who you are has never (for me) been defined by your place of birth, the language you speak or the colour of your skin.
Who you are (to me) is a wonderful, warm, kind hearted, generous lady that has made me smile so many times.
I know you have been through so much and you have been treated very badly by your ex and also by some very small minded people. I can never make that pain any better but I can try and make you smile now.
Be who you are, be what you are and never be ashamed. Smile for the joy you bring so many people and do not let one or two people make you forget.
This is a beautiful world with so many beautiful people in it, YOU are one of them.
Take care of yourself my friend
Loads of love and hugs